Making Meetings More Fun

Fun meetingWhether you’re a manager or a team member, those mandatory once-a-week meetings can often feel more like a painful lecture. They often go something like this: boss walks in, rattles off the list of problems that people have been having this week, asks for suggestions on how to fix them, gives his or her own ideas, and then concludes the meeting with a half-hearted “get back to work everybody!” The only problem is, people’s problem solving skills aren’t usually at their peak right after they’ve been chastised for the previous half hour. If you’re the one being unwillingly subjected to these types of meetings, there’s not much you can do. If you’re the boss and the meetings are painful even for you, here are a couple of tips to make progress meetings more productive for everyone involved.

1. Open with the positives. Instead of launching right in to your spiel about what’s been going wrong this week, start by dishing out praise where it’s deserved. This will get your meeting off on the right foot, and it boosts employee morale to praise their accomplishments in a public setting.

2. Focus on broad problems. Before the meeting, sit down and think about what problems you could discuss on an individual or small-group level. Skip these in the meeting – it will make the meeting go faster and you won’t loose the attention of the rest of the group while you’re focusing on a problem that just affects a couple of people. You’ll also avoid having to criticize individuals in front of the rest of the office, which will help with morale.

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The Plus Side Of Working Over The Holidays

Christmas pine in office As everyone who has been cruelly thrust from their cushy college schedule (four months of break a year!) into the real world (you want all eight days off for Chanukah? Really?) knows, there’s no worse feeling than being told you have to work over the holidays. Instead of spending all your time at the office dreaming of the moment you can go home and dig in to the leftover eggnog, focus on the little-sung pros of working over the holiday season.

1. It shows your dedication. With January being the prime month for annual progress reviews and promotions, you’ll want to be on top of your work and feeling like you’ve been putting your best effort forward lately.

2. You get time to yourself. Even if the empty office seems a little depressing at first, you’ll quickly become appreciative of the lack of chatty co-workers. Plus, there’s nobody to take the last cup of coffee without starting a new pot!

3. You can skip the post-holiday freak out that everyone in the office goes through when they return to find their inboxes overflowing and deadlines looming.

4. With the rest of the office struggling to catch up after the holidays, the timely completion of your projects will stand out to the boss.

Although it’s no fun to head out to the office when everyone else is sitting down to enjoy some family time and delicious Christmas cookies, it doesn’t have to be all doom and gloom. Focus on the pros of being in the office over the holidays, and the lack of eggnog and holiday cheer won’t seem nearly as horrible.

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Drinking At Work

drinking at workThis is a delicate topic, one that isn’t frequently discussed in public forums, but it is incredibly important in the lives of millions of workers around the globe.

Drinking at work is more common in the US than you might think. One recent study concluded that 14 percent of the American workforce spends part of the workday drinking alcohol in one form or another. These statistics include white collar workers who return to the office after the traditional two martini lunch somewhat sloshed. There is also the clandestine drinking that goes on in locker rooms, bathrooms, on terraces and in stairwells. Even like-minded carpoolers have been known to water their drives with nips from flasks.

People who drink at work do so for the same reasons that people drink in other venues. They are in pain, and because they do not know how to ask for help, they turn to the easier road of self-medication through the bottle. The end is of course devastating for such a worker.

If you know someone at work who is drinking, please intervene. Urge that person to see a counselor. Many workplaces have a staff counselor who will work with such a person. If this fails, offer to attend an AA meeting with the person. Do whatever you can to help the person without seeming to be judgmental. Everyone can be helped who is afflicted by the illness of alcohol. Do everything you can to keep it off the job.

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Fighting With Your Immediate Supervisor

Dispute among employees at work in the officeThere is always a chain of command at work, a lineage of authority to which you belong as soon as you sign a contract and take your place in the workforce of a particular company or institution. The degree to which you thrive in your new work environment will depend in no small part on how well you fit in and make positive contributions to that chain. However, disrupt it, and you could be looking at a swift and not altogether happy send-off to another job or the unemployment line.

No supervisor likes being challenged too often by the team or teams under her. There are protocols for airing grievances and disagreements, and these are the formats in which you can say what you feel and think. Not all disagreements are bad moments. But if you take on your supervisor outside the context of those procedures, watch out.

It isn’t ok to sabotage a normal daily break by getting in your supervisor’s face about something. When the supervisor is working one on one with someone else, you shouldn’t pop in, airing a complaint as if your other colleague isn’t even there. It’s not a good idea to stop your superior in the hall and initiate a heated conversation about a decision you don’t like. These behaviors will only get you branded a troublemaker and a loose cannon. Your supervisor has a supervisor, don’t forget, and that person will side with your supervisor 99 percent of the time. So, be smart and pick your fights shrewdly.

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Collaborating On The Job

Business team smiling It seems a no brainer that when you go to work you are going to be working with other people. We all know this, but for many, working with people just means being around people while you work. For others, and these people are more successful, working with others also means collaborating.

What does that word mean in a working environment? It means pooling resources in order to accomplish things you couldn’t accomplish separately. It is a positive effort, a coming together of diverse talents to make something, or to make something happen, that would otherwise be impossible. It is also a timesaver, a way to make the most progress in the least amount of time.

In order to collaborate well, one must have an open energy, a willingness to listen, and a talent for flexibility. The ego is submerged, in service to the whole. One must be genuinely interested in others and in learning, asking honestly and openly question such as “what can I find out from you that I don’t know?” and “what tips do you have for me,” and “what insights do you have regarding this project?” These types of questions spring from an open mind, a mind that is eager to see every problem and process as an opportunity for growth and success.

The sincere and hands-on collaborator at work only strengthens an organization and builds relationships within the organization that inspire much greater productivity.

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Getting Ahead At Work

Promotion in Maze - Open Door to Career SuccessYou more than like your job. Some even say you are crazy about it. You’ve been there for a couple of years, and you’re a trusted, dependable employee. But even you have begun to admit that you feel a little like you’ve gotten in a bit of a rut. Maybe you haven’t yet received the raise or promotion you thought should have come your way by now. Well, time to get more proactive.

Look for trouble, fires to put out, and do it. Tell your supervisor about troubles you’ve spotted, and offer possible solutions. Your boss will notice. At the same time, take on an assignment you might not normally be expected to do. That will catch the boss’s eye, especially if you turn in great work.

Another thing you can do is ask questions. This can be tricky. You don’t want to pepper people with queries, but the inquisitive worker often zooms past the quiet lethargic one on the ladder to success. Ask questions, but also get to the point. So many people are longwinded. Don’t be. Just as in dinner toasts, brevity in office communication is golden.

Along this line, don’t hesitate to express your accomplishments, but do so tactfully and carefully. Don’t boast. Maintain a winning, humble attitude with a little pizzazz in it. Finally, seek out and enlist the priceless aid of an office mentor. A mentor can guide you through all the rough patches and model just how you get ahead in your profession.

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Work Habits That Work

Man jumping over gapPeople who are successful at work do things a little differently than people who are less successful. Wouldn’t it be helpful to be especially observant of the successful ones and note how they do what they do? Well, read on.

Successful workers know when and how to take breaks. Yes, breaks. They know that real productivity comes in part from making good use of those moments when you aren’t working. Taking breaks refreshes your brain. These workers also arrive each day in a positive mood. Arriving in a stressful or angry mood can decrease productivity by as much as 10 percent.

Successful workers make mindful choices about what they eat. Eat the wrong things at breakfast or lunch and you can feel slow and groggy at the worst possible moments. The important thing to strive for and achieve is to keep your blood sugar steady throughout the day. Avoid peaks and valleys, which destroy your work.

Successful people at work have learned to keep a flexible to-do list. It’s ok to start the day with a plan, but it hurts your productivity if you stick slavishly to it. Have the airiness of imagination to make changes as they come up. These same people also know how to use our current technology without being consumed by it. Don’t lose too much of your day to social networking.

Finally, the successful worker knows how to say no. We all want to be useful and helpful, but we can’t do everything. And guess what? No one expects you to.

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What Your Shoes Say About You

Selection of male shoesLike your teeth, your hands, your eyes and your tie, your shoes say a lot about the kind of person and worker you are. Look down. Do you see a broken shoelace with a clumsy knot tied in it to keep it in service? Well, that could say you’re industrious. To someone else, it could say that you’re sloppy and cheap. How much do new shoelaces cost?

Look down again. Are you wearing outdated shoes? Shoes that aren’t color coordinated? Are they inappropriate shoes with the rest of your outfit? Why are you wearing deck shoes with a three-piece suit. Either you are brilliant and eccentric, or you’re a village idiot. Are you wearing cowboy boots with slacks or shorts? Flip-flops with a tie? Sandals with woolen trousers? None of these fashion statements is likely to inspire your bosses or make them feel as if you really know the score.

Looking down again, do your shoes need a shine? Do they need to be resoled? Shoes in need of a shine suggest someone who isn’t detail oriented, someone who doesn’t know how to close the deal. Shoes in need of new soles also scream “cheap” and “lazy.” The wearer is probably careless, thinking no more of his company than he does the health of his feet.

Pay attention to the shoes worn by the most successful people at work and emulate them. Buy the same styles, but perhaps in a different color. Be smart like this, and people will begin to look on you with favor from the bottom up.

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When Do You Seek Counseling At Work

counselingThis is the most delicate of questions and possible situations at the workplace. Indeed, when do you seek counseling, how do you arrive at that conclusion, and then how do you carry it out?

Obviously, you have to be going through something at work that is very stressful, even overwhelming and confusing, before you’ll probably want to seek counseling. Maybe the issue is sexual harassment, or perhaps it’s a case of bullying. Do you strongly suspect a colleague or supervisor of embezzlement? Maybe you think hiring practices have been violated. What do you do if it appears that several people are being bypassed for promotions for no good reasons?

These are all issues and situations that might lead you to seek counseling, and to do so is better than to keep it all pent up inside you. That way breakdown and madness lies. It’s alright to discuss your concerns first with your confidante and best friend at work. It’s a very good idea to discuss the situation with your partner at home. Depending on the advice you receive from these trusted resources, you can then make up your mind. Do you wish to pursue counseling? And if so, do you want to go the in-house counselor, or to someone outside the company?

Going outside the company can give you greater privacy, and there may be some protection in that. But seeking counseling in-house may play a part in healing a wound in the company itself. It’s a serious decision. Weigh your options and proceed with diligence and awareness.

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Cussing At Work

angry office worker cursingMost people have done it, and many have regretted it. When you cuss at work, you are stepping outside the box, and that is always dangerous in American office life. In this environment, employers and workers are encouraged to adopt personas that often have little to do with the real people they’re masking. In the office, you represent the company, and the company doesn’t use profanity. At the same time, most people do cuss, so you have a built-in conflict.

Most employees are well aware of this situation. Some choose to cuss indiscriminately, and they are usually always in peril. Others pick their profanity spots, swearing only on breaks, and even then only around certain peers. Swearing in the presence of a manager is a roll of the dice. Even if that manager cusses, that doesn’t mean she’s giving you permission to do the same thing.

But what’s the big deal, you wonder. Profanity is nothing more than self-expression through the use of colorful (or off color?) metaphors. We’re in the 21st century now. Why be so uptight about words? Well, words are powerful and magical. Even employers who don’t get this consciously register it on some unconscious level. All people do. Profanity is always a jolt, a blast that upsets equanimity, and businesses are always sensitive to anything that creates or threatens imbalance and turbulence.

So, unless you have Tourette’s syndrome, leave your potty mouth at home, reserved for the amusement of family and friends.

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